If you have a sec i would appreciate some feedback..if not this will be a nice little place to weight my options.

1. I recently quit my job because it was sucking my soul dry and making me loss my will to live so now i'm unemployed again. Should I A. keep looking for a job in the area i currently live (There isn't much offered) B. move in with my cousin to cut expenses and live in an area that might offer more opportunities or C. run crawling back to the horrible job that i quit for a reason and stay there until i do find something better, no matter how long it takes.

2. A friend of mine asked me to go to this Ice Cream Social this Friday--So my question is What the heck is an ice cream social? And what do you wear to one?

3. I talked to my friend from college today and we haven't talk in like forever. Things seemed to be going well but we both came to a similar conclusion about life after college..It isn't at all what we had expected and prepared for. What is the logical next step after finishing school? Is it ok to feel a bit lost?

4. I've been really calm and happy lately...it's like nothing can really bring me down. I have so many things to think about and worry about but somehow even with the stress of loans and bills and decisions and drama I'm still optimistic about the future...--not really a question or a decision just an observation :) So about the above three--any input.

I finally sat down and wrote my Will today.
Don't get the wrong idea. I know i'm young and i shouldn't be thinking about the end so near the beginning, and it's not like i have tons of money i want to give to people or lots of valuable possessions that my family members would fight over.
 I wrote my Will because i wanted to have some kind of plan in place; i want my family to know my wishes about what to do. I'm not picky and really i know that funerals are all about the living because the dead are long gone but i did have a few points i wanted to get across. There were things like my internet personality i wanted them to dispatch, people on my contact list to tell and people not to, things i've buried that shouldn't stay buried and that i want them have in the event that i'm not around to give it away.
Preparing for death is about tying up loose ends..sometimes you never get to say or do the things you want and a Will is just a way to do some of those things
- find a good guardian for your kids or your dog.
- What do you want to happen to your reminds- burial...cremation...both?
- Who gets your beloved books? Baseball cards? CD and DVD collection?
- What do you want to happen to your computer? Your Porn? Your journals dating back to 5th grade?
- Who do you trust most to follow your instructions? Your Executor.

I think about this stuff. Maybe because i've had so many people die around me in the last few years but i see what's left of their lives packed into garbage bags and thrown away or donated. I see the vultures who only come around to see what they want to take. I see the things you can discover, the secrets that come out, when the keeper isn't there to keep them. A simple note that says "He may not be the father" An old death certificate that breeds more questions like "If she didn't have a last name and his last name was Anderson...where did Agnew come from?"

I wrote my Will mainly so i could talk HAHA i wanted a place where i could tell everyone the things i can't say in person like how much i appreciate and love them and how i want them to live after i'm gone. In my Will there are book and movie recommendations :) I give my little brother advice about what i've figured out about life so far. I gave my cat to my friend who is a big animal lover.

So, friends...when you think about a world without you is there anything you want to leave behind, anything you want done? Have you thought about it? Have you thought about what happens to your digital self when your no longer here to maintain it? Have you thought about your Will yet?